TB -
Good list. Ill just rattle some stuff off the top of my head.
I think they have a drive: This causes them to enjoy life more than
they enjoy sleeping - they don't need an alarm to get up they are
excited to seize the day. They have found their purpose rather than
being a spectator they are ready to take life by the balls.
Healthy: While this isn't true of all successful people - you see a
lot of fat ones who over work themselves and let their health go in
order to make that money I think its a must to exercise and eat
healthy. Adds years to your life and life to your years. Its important
to find balance. I can tell when im getting out of balance if I stop
eating healthy and exercising. Its a good red flag for me.
Positive attitude is huge. While there are always exceptions and lots
of negative minded people in power I think being positive goes a
loooong way to leading a positive life and making a positive impact.
People are drawn to you and want to help. Successful people know what
they want and they are confident (optimistic) in their ability to get
there.
Organization: I really think your external environment is a reflection
of your internal state. If your environment is cluttered then most
likely so are your thoughts. I think a big part of why this works is
because its the first step towards making the everyday tasks you do a
habit that you no longer have to focus on and happen automatically.
Then its about refining these habits and streamlining them for
efficiency. Ex: I can tell each time I move homes or start a new life
style ie. a new job - I have a period of time where I am adjusting. Im
figuring out the best way to organize my life so that it all runs
smoothly and efficiently - This starts when I wake up in the AM. When
do I wake up? What is the first thing I do, what is the second. What
are my options for breakfast. How much time do i need to wake up, do
my morning chores and get to work on time. EX: My current job started
3 weeks ago. The night before I thought about what I wanted to do and
then put that in a logical order. I wrote on a note pad how much time
I would have from when I work up to when I needed to leave. Wake up
5:45 - Shower - 6:10 (leaving time for 1 snooze button once n awhile)
- Meditate 610-6:40 - Breakfast/make lunch - 7:00 dress and leave for
work by 7:20. --- Now my first day I was near late for work. by the
3rd day I could fit in all the tasks and I had like 20 minutes to sit
around and surf the Internet before I had to leave. I've streamlined
my routine - its solid and efficient.
Having social relationships in general is a huge thing. Sex comes as a
by product of that - It is a great stress reliever and confidence
booster. A female in your life can go a long way as a support system
and someone to relate to. Napoleon hill has a chapter dedicated to
using the sex drive as a motivating energy to succeed in think and
grow rich.
Drinking. I think it lowers your consciousness level for days if not
weeks. I quit the bar once I got this job so I could remove myself
from that environment. Jake tried to do sober October - he talked
about it for all of September. day 5 n he blew it cuz his friend at
the bar wanted him to do shots - he couldn't say no - now hes given up
entirely. It impacts his health and his quality of life. But it has a
lot to do with the environment he puts himself in and that environment
has a lot of positive aspects too like all the people you meet and the
experiences you have. Although it only goes so far i feel and i feel
like I reached the point where it was no longer serving me.
I think educating yourself is good. Reading is good. It keeps you
sharp and informed depending on what your reading. I don't care much
about the news or politics or world events. I do watch a lot of
documentaries and have a pretty good idea of where society is heading
and what its problems are however. I just feel like all the current
events are over dramatisations of negative shit and you tend to get
more of what you focus on. and politics is all propaganda paid for in
order to influence our opinion. I try to avoid it. Obviously its good
to know whats going on and follow big issues and happenings around the
world but I think its even more important to feel good! And by feeling
good you'll attract more things to feel good about!
I think IQ can only go so far. If you are smart enough to make it
through school you are smart enough. This is when emotional
intelligence takes over. your ability to control your emotions and
manage the emotions of others. This can be improved by meditating and
feeling the connection we share or getting in touch with your empathy.
Once everyone is all smart being smart in their smart little place
what sets them apart? Emotional intelligence.